We got to continue our journey along the California coast to find the most beautiful and secluded elopement destinations for you.
Big Sur, CA is many things.
Big Sur, that famed land of towering cliffs falling into the sea, of coastal Redwoods shrouded in mist, of waterfalls plunging past hot springs into the ocean, is the perfect location for an elopement. Imagine saying your I-do’s in a deserted cove between the headlands covered in California wild flowers, or after a steep hike up to the summit of the Santa Lucia Mountain range with dramatic views in all directions. Imagine surfing the famed waves at Sand Dollar Beach or eating some of the best food California has to offer. All within a 90 mile stretch that encompasses California’s most ruggedly gorgeous coastline.
🌄 Best Locations in Big Sur to Elope
(From South to North)
1. Carpoforo (San Carpoforo Creek) Beach
On the southern side of Big Sur, this hidden gem offers a dreamy “secret” sandy shore, accessed via a gentle one-mile hike—perfect for a peaceful beach ceremony with driftwood, sea birds, and wildflowers to set the mood. Although camping and bonfires are no longer permitted on the beach, it is perfect for a secluded sunrise ceremony or a stunning sunset photo session!
2. Ragged Point
Perched on dramatic cliffs at the southern tip of Big Sur, Ragged Point features incredible trails like the Baldwin Ranch Trail and a small secluded pebble beach—dramatic views and quiet vibes guaranteed. Plus there is a beautiful inn for a lovely romantic night on the rugged California coast.
3. Sand Dollar Beach
This is the largest public beach in Big Sur, featuring bluffs, picnic spots, tide pools, and plenty of space to roam—no permit required if you’re keeping it small. Plus, the waves here can get super fun! Feel like surfing and camping on your wedding day? This has to be one of the best, most beautiful places on the entire California coast.
4. Cone Peak
For adventurous souls, hike up to Cone Peak (5,155 ft) via the Sea‑to‑Sky route. The Santa Lucia mountain range is one of the steepest, highest coastal ranges in the world. Say “I do” with jaw-dropping mountain and ocean views beneath the Redwoods.
5. Sykes Hot Springs
Tucked within the Ventana Wilderness, these hot springs invite you to celebrate while relaxing in thermal pools — prepare for a hike-in adventure.
6. Esalen Institute
World-famous for its cliff‑top hot springs baths and spiritual vibes, Esalen makes a soothing and memorable backdrop for an elopement retreat.
7. Limekiln State Park
Set amongst coastal redwoods with lush waterfalls and rocky tide pools, Limekiln is a California coastal treasure. Lots of beautiful hikes to incredible beaches.
8. Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park
Home to the iconic McWay Falls, which cascades onto the beach below. Exchange vows on the overlook for an picture perfect experience.
9. Andrew Molera Beach
A laid‑back, wide sandy beach with a scenic ridge-to-bluff trail—lots of nature, fewer people. Soak in the frigid turquoise waters that are most reminiscent of a tropical paradise than the California central coast.
10. Plus more Redwoods & coastal gems
Think Garrapata, Pfeiffer Beach (Keyhole Rock!), and other state parks—I'll show you secret trails, wild flower blanketed cliffs, and 360 degree views of the windswept Pacific Ocean.
📅 Best Times to Elope
When:
Spring brings those stunning wildflowers.
Summer brings crowds and unpredictable foggy days oscillating with perfect blue skies and warm long summer nights.
Fall has the most sunshine and fewer people, though this is increasingly the highest wildfire risk time.
Winter temperatures can be unpredictable with wild crashing waves and even snow! There are way fewer people, and if you're willing to bring a jacket, you can have the cliffs all to yourself.
Weekdays : (Mon–Thu) are best. Park permits for state parks in peak season are typically only issued then—and it’s way less crowded .
Ceremony times:
Sunrise offers intimacy and a mystical foggy ambiance.
Sunset gives golden light and epic ocean hues.
📝 Permits & Legal Requirements
Marriage License
Pick it up from any CA County Clerk (Monterey is closest). Both partners must be present, and it’s valid statewide.
State Park Permits
Elopement (≤10 people): ~$400–$425 per hour though this varies widely by location.
Garrapata allows up to 25 guests (~$400).
Julia Pfeiffer Burns & Pfeiffer Big Sur: Weekday permits only, up to 10 people, ~$425.
Pfeiffer Beach: No permit needed, but parking limits, wind, and access issues apply.
National Forest beaches (like Sand Dollar): Day-use fee ($10) or use a federal pass; no permit required for small ceremonies.
Permit Tips
Submit early—6 months ahead is best for state parks, up to a year for Garrapata. Applications less than 45 days out may incur rush fees; under 21 days often aren’t accepted.
Luckily, if you have me, I will take care of all the boring details for you, so you can just relax and enjoy the day.
💍 How to Plan Your Elopement
Step 1: Imagine your wedding day. What makes you smile? What makes you feel good? What wild dream can you imagine for your special day? What do you like to do most with your partner? Whatever it is, I can help you make that dream become a reality.
Step 2: Let’s pick a location. Maybe Palos Verdes is that incredible elopement destination for you, maybe it’s not. Either way, I have spent a large part of my life traveling California and the world, so I have personal experience and recommendations for you. Did I mention I’m a certified travel planner?
Step 3: Once we decide the destination, let’s pick a date. Together we will weigh the pros and cons of our location over the seasons, and we will pick a date that most aligns with your romantic vision.
Step 4: We will lock in any additional vendors that you need (all with my bespoke recommendations!) and then begin the booking and planning process. My all inclusive elopement packages include my assistance!
Step 5: Sit back and relax! That’s why you’re eloping! You will actually spend your wedding day relaxed and fully engaged in what matters most to you. No hectic running around confirming with last minute vendors or your too drunk uncle, or the missing bartender. Instead, look your partner in the eyes, breath in the beauty of the California coast, take a moment to be truly present. This is your wedding day, and it should be the best day of your life.
