21 Additional (fun) (sort of weird) Reasons to Elope



(and some creative unique ideas for your elopement!)



So, maybe you are considering eloping. Maybe you have almost decided to just go for it. Maybe you thought about having a traditional wedding, and came up with a list of reasons to elope instead.



Here are some non traditional, super fun, maybe you didn't think of these already, additional reasons to add to that list. Because eloping is really FUN! And if you did already think of them, than sweet! Let's get started turning those ideas into your dream wedding day!

Bora Bora elopement. Stunning white sand beach with palm trees and bride running along the shore.

1. You want your first dance to be on a secluded tropical beach as the sun sinks behind the horizon so that you're dancing on top of the sky reflected in the sand.





2. You want to scream your I Do's from the top of a mountain as loud as you can.

A girl stands between two giant Alerce trees in Patagonia, Chile on the Carretera Austral.

3. You want your altar to be a 2000 year old Redwood tree decorated with wild California poppies.



4. Maybe your partner told you they wanted to elope. And you don’t really care how you get married,  you just love them and want to marry them wherever, whenever.



5. Or, as my husband put it, maybe "your wife made you".



6. You want stunning photos of your wedding day that aren't squished into a thirty minute window.

Surfer in the Algarve, Portugal on his surf elopement wedding day. Deep barrel ride.

7. You want to say your vows on a surfboard and catch a wave in, instead of walking down an aisle.



8. You want to have a meaningful roadtrip wedding to take photos where you first met, have your kiss where you had your first kiss, exchange vows where you first said I love you, have your first dance in the bar where you first got too drunk.



9. You want to spend your wedding night sleeping under the Milky Way alone somewhere lost with just the person you love most.



10. Maybe you just want to say Screw You to the Big Wedding industry.



11. You want to start your marriage on a backpacking trip. John Muir Trail elopement and honeymoon anyone?!?



12. You can't think of a more fun way to get married than by spending the day heli-skiing.


Rainbow ice falls cascade down the side of a mountain in Revelstoke, Canada. Driving home from a heli ski adventurous elopement.
A penguin waddles up from the beach in Antarctica in front of the jagged mountains. This would be a great destination for an elopement.
Penguins feed their babies in Antarctica. A unique idea for an elopement destination.

13 . You want penguins to be the only witnesses to your day in the most spectacular location on earth; Antarctica.



14 . Or, you want a reason to snuggle next to your partner as you get married inside a glacial crevasse bathed in otherworldly blue light.



15 . You'd rather relax with your partner on the sand than spend all day stressing.



16 . You'd rather have your first kiss hanging upside down from an over hang in a slot canyon (I'm not a climber so bear with me! (But I sure can take your photo while you do the climbing!)



17 . Maybe you'd rather not do any physical activity, but you'd like to have a wedding day photo with a lion on a safari in Masai Mara, Kenya.


A close up shot of a lion lying in the grass in Masai Mara, Kenya. On location for a destination safari elopement.

18 . You just don't like the idea of creating so much trash on your special day.



19 . You want to spend your wedding day working on your bronzeage in the warm Baja sun.



20 . You want to be in bed by 9:30, snuggling with your newly married partner, reading each other poems by candle light



21 . You want to stay up all night and get married under the stars, howlin' your vows at the moon.

A man pets a donkey on the beach in Baja, California, Mexico next to his retro Land Cruiser. He is in Mexico for his elopement.

And the list goes on.



Because that's the true beauty of an elopement. It can be anything you want it to be. There are no traditions to follow, no patterns to expect. Your wedding day is simple. It is about you, and the person you love most, making a promise to each other.